The question about spit or swallow really hasn't been fully answered. Oral sex carries a very low risk for HIV transmission. Should you be concerned? Well, are his eyelashes enlarging? You are a very inspiring professionsl - great work! What are your thoughts, should we be concerned at all? Now I'm being the paranoid freak only because I love him and care for him so much.

Last week accidentally, he swallowed some of my cum. I just came across yuor website and found it very informative as well as at times amusing not that I'm making fun of any situation, but you gotta admit it: 'eyelashes enlargement' being a sign of HIV is a stretch.Īnyway, I'm reaching out to you because I'm HIV+ with undetectable viral load and my boyfriend is HIV. ' Everyone should give at least that well recognized warning that 'something's coming!' I'll reprint a post from the archives that addresses your spit/swallow dilemma.

As Samantha on Sex in the City said when being questioned on the topic, 'I only swallow when surprised.' Gosh, whatever happened to the full-throated yelps of 'Oh God, Oh God, Ohhhhhh God, I'm gonna shoot, I'm gonna shoot, Oh God I'm gonna. The spit or swallow controversy has yet to be definitively settled. You told the dude not to cum in your mouth and yet he held the back of your head while you gagged on his tallywhacker and spunked down your throat? Nice guy.